Personalised Chinese Wedding & ROM Date Selection

Chinese wedding date selection, or 择日 (zé rì), is the classical practice of choosing an auspicious day for a marriage by reading the birth charts of the people involved and the energy of the year. It means picking a day that is in harmony with both partners, so the union begins on a smooth and supported note rather than on a date that clashes with either of you.

ROM (Registration of Marriage) date selection chooses an auspicious day, and the favourable hour within it, for signing your marriage papers. Many couples in Malaysia register on a different day from the wedding banquet, so the ROM date is selected in its own right from both partners' birth charts. For an ROM you receive a shortlist of three auspicious dates.

A general almanac, or a free "auspicious date calculator", shows the same good days to everyone, regardless of who they are. YuanFen is not an instant calculator. Your date is personally calculated from both of your actual birth charts, read together — the same method used for private clients, not a one-size lookup that the whole country shares.

Both partners' full names, dates of birth and birth times, your email and WhatsApp number, the time frame you are planning (for example June to August 2026), and one couple photo you both love. For weddings, we also ask for both sets of parents' dates of birth, so we can avoid a date that clashes with either family.

Birth time sharpens the chart and lets us choose the favourable hour within the day, not just the day itself. If you are not sure of an exact time, give us your best estimate (for example "around morning") in the notes, and we will work with it.

A wedding involves both families, not just the couple. Checking the parents' charts lets us avoid a date that clashes with a parent on either side, so the day is smooth for everyone present. This is only needed for wedding dates, not for ROM.

Any of the three. Some couples only register (ROM), some only want the wedding day, and many want both. Your ROM and wedding dates can be different days, each chosen on its own merits. Just choose in the form. It's RM388 per couple either way — choosing 'Both' doesn't cost more.

For an ROM you receive a shortlist of three auspicious dates. For a wedding you receive six, giving you and both families more room to plan around venues and guests. Each date comes with its favourable hour.

RM388 per couple, whether you choose ROM, the wedding ceremony, or both. After you submit your details, you will be guided to payment. Your date selection begins once payment is confirmed.

You will be guided to payment of RM388 per couple. Once your payment is confirmed, your calculation begins, worked out by hand from both partners' charts. Within 3 days, your personalised date-selection report is sent straight to your email or WhatsApp.

Within 3 days from confirmed payment. Each date is worked out by hand, the proper way. As soon as your report is ready, it is sent straight to your email or WhatsApp.

We work within your time frame to find the best available dates. If your window is genuinely difficult, we will tell you honestly and suggest the nearest strong alternatives, so you are never left guessing.

No. This is timing and alignment, not prediction. We are not telling your future, we are helping you begin your marriage on a day that is in harmony with both of you. It is a way of showing care for the start of your life together.